AMAZING AND SPARKLING FAMILY LIFE THAT WARMS THE HEART: AN ADOPTION OF GOD'S SACRED ORDER THAT AFFORDS VELVET SMOOTH FEELINGS AND PLEASANTRIES OF PERFECT MARITAL LIFE THAT ALL MEN CRAVE TO POSSESS
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AMAZING AND SPARKLING FAMILY LIFE THAT WARMS THE HEART:
AN ADOPTION OF GOD'S SACRED ORDER THAT AFFORDS VELVET SMOOTH FEELINGS AND PLEASANTRIES OF PERFECT MARITAL LIFE THAT ALL MEN CRAVE TO POSSESS
By
REV. PROF. CYPRIAN CHRIS JERUSALEM OKOLIE,
PhD, DD.
PhD, DD.
(The Presiding Chancellor / Rector cum Bishop-Chaplain & Apostle Of Zionist Kingdom Vision, Mission & Divine Mandate @ Zion In Glory Above)
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🎊MARITAL LOVE THAT WARMS THE HEART (1)🎊
Beloved Blessed Kingdom 💕 Brethren & My Respected ♨ Sparkling Friends Of The Sacred ♥ Academia:
HolyGreetings To U All In My Beautiful White 😍 Love In Blessed Lord Christ De Messiah Who Loved Us In Peace, By His 🏡 Grace! 🎊
Congratulations!
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
Welcome To Our 🏡 Today's Sacred ♥ Talk On CHRISTIAN MORAL PERFECTION @ ZION Revealing Morality @ Its Marital Life Dimension Whilst Yet Exposing, As It Does, The Vitality Of Marital 😍 Love That Warms The ♥ Heart.
Alleluia!! Amen. Hosanna In The 🏡 Highest!
Blessed Is He Who Comes In The Name Of The Lord! Hosanna In The Highest! The Lord Has Enlightened Us - His 👑 KINGDOM SAINTS @ ZION; And He Is Our God Forever. He Shall Reign Over All Mankind To Everlasting Ages Thru His Most Merciful Son, Lord Jesus Christ De Messiah Yahshua Who Comes Again, In Glory, Soonest, By Rapture, To Take Us Home.
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
Glory, Glory Be To Almighty God In The Highest! Peace, Peace To Favoured, Spiritually Bouncing, Vibrating & Radiating 👩👩 Daughters Of ZION @ Clean Manifestation Of Heroic Virtues Of 😍 Love ♥ Chastity & Submission! Peace To Blessed, Elegant & Gallant 👑 Kingdom 👬 Men Of Integrity, Confidence & Goodwill!
Alleluia!! Amen.
THE HOLY BEATITUDES
* Blessed are they who keep their body undefiled (pure): For they shall be the Temple of God.
* Blessed are they who abandon the circular enjoyments on account of the 👑 Kingdom of God: For they shall be cordially received by Almighty God.
* Blessed are they who observe the Testimonies, Injunctions & Faith of Blessed Lord Christ De Messiah: For they shall secure their dwelling in CHRIST De MESSIAH'S Eternal 💡 Light.
* Blessed are the Souls and bodies of Virgins: For they are acceptable and glorious to God and they shall not lose the reward of their VIRGINITY. Unto them the Word of the Heavenly Father shall prove effectual to their own Salvation in the Day of the LORD CHRIST DE MESSIAH. And they shall be Satisfied with the Bliss of Eternal REST - God's Perpetual Holy Sabbath.
* Blessed are they, who for the Love of The Lord Christ De Messiah abandon the glories of the World: For they shall judge 😇 Angels and be placed @ the 👉 Right Hand of The Lord Christ De Messiah. These shall not face the bitterness and misery of the Last Judgment.
* Blessed are they who have wives, as though they had none: For they shall be made 😇😇 Angels of God
(1 Cor. 7: 29).
* Blessed are they who embrace and adopt the pure Total Gospel Truths & Wisdom of CHRIST De MESSIAH: For they shall be called the Sons of The Most High God.
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Blessed 👑 Kingdom Brethren @ ZION & Favoured Associates In My Darling Comradeship @ ZION of Holy Jerusalem: It is indeed worthwhile that I should offer YOU in this divinely ♥ Moral Discourse the essential vital Truths of Sacred ♥ Morality pertaining to "Marital Life That Warms The ♥ Heart", since I'm convinced that YOU, with your disposition towards The Gospel Truths of Blessed Lord Christ De Messiah with Holiness thereof and your sympathy with the Brethren who are living in accordance with the Holy Law, YOU will be more eager to listen to the Holy Account which I purpose to set forth herein, since You have come to be one of us - God's 👑 Kingdom Saints @ ZION of Holy Jerusalem - YOU are anxious to hear everything that tends to build up the Soul.
Alleluia!! Amen. Hosanna In The Highest!
As YOU are so eager to acquire the blessed Knowledge of those things which can benefit the Mind, I feel it incumbent upon me to impart to YOU all the essential sacred ♥ information in my power. Of course, I should feel the same holy duty towards all who possessed the same holy disposition, but I feel especially towards YOU since YOU have aspirations which are so noble; & since YOU are not only my sparkling darling Friends @ ZION, but are also my Blessed Comrades in The Divine Service and earnest pursuit of Divine Goodness, Holiness & Righteousness.
Alleluia!! Amen.
For neither the pleasure derived from Gold nor other of the possessions which are highly prized by shallow minds confer the same benefit as the Holy pursuit of the Blessed 👑 Kingdom and the sacred ♥ study which we expend in securing it, to God's Glory.
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
But that I may not get YOU bored by a seemingly lengthy introduction, I will proceed @ once to the sacred ♥ substance of today's tutorial business @ specially thrilling and edifying Theological Romance that thrills the soul and warms the❤️ heart.
THE MARITAL LOVE THAT WARMS THE ♥ HEART
Experience has shown that natural 😍 Love and Affection are not an adequate base for marital life. Unless a 👫 couple has a real relationship with God and learn to love this God more than they love themselves, they will be found, after a few years, that their purely human 😍 Love has become selfish and so they will begin to use and abuse each other. Selfishness or Self love is the great curse of marriage: Selfless 😍 Love, on the other hand, is the cornerstone of a sound Marriage.
The supreme example of such 😍 Love is God. He lived and died for the one He loved; so must both spouses do to each other. Let them live in 😍 Love and die for each other and for their lovely children, in all righteousness and truth, to God's Glory. Let them rather serve and not rule each other.
Day after day they must learn that they are incarnation of God, actual physical embodiment of "ANOTHER". It is only through God, with Him and in Him that they can live and love. It is God's tremendous sacrificial 😍 Love that must hold them and bind them together. After all, marital life is merely a foretaste of the the faithful, true and perfect "Divine Marriage Of The Lamb" which is Lord Christ De Messiah's Marriage with His Militant ⛪ Church on 🌍 Earth.
This is a ♥ Heavenly Marriage, a time for Heaven to rejoice and be overjoyed as Almighty God is The One Who makes the Marriage for His Blessed Holy Son, CHRIST De MESSIAH.
Of course human Marriage, in its imperfection and unfaithfulness, is a foretaste and sacred ♥ shadow of The Perfect, Blessed Holy Marriage between The Lord Christ De Messiah & His ⛪ Church. How I wish that all 👬 men and 👩👩 women would truly understand this!
O That 👬 Men & 👨👨 Women Would Understand What Human Marriage Symbolises And Sincerely Take It As A Divine Arrangement That Should Be Honoured And In All Holiness, Faithfulness And Truth!
For Like The Holy Sabbath Of God That Is Symbolic And Spiritually Significant, Pointing To The Millennium Reign Of CHRIST De MESSIAH, So Also God Gave Man A Divine Institution That Serves To Man As The Marital Institution To Remind Mankind Of The Forthcoming Blessed UNION between CHRIST De MESSIAH And The ⛪ Church Of God On 🌍 Earth.
Therefore, Marriage is sacred ♥ and honourable and the Bed Holy; for SEX, similarly, is a sacred ♥ Gift of God to man and must, to that extent, be respected; USED to God's Glory in Gratitude, but not ABUSED!
Similarly, Orgasm in a couple's relationship and 😍 sexual love affairs symbolizes the Glory of Divine Happiness and Enjoyment with absolute Satisfaction and Splendour of The LORD'S Holy Marriage With His 👰 Bride.
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
Therefore, 😍 LOVE Affairs In Marital Life Is Purely A Noble And Beautiful Thing, To Bring Glory And Honour To The Almighty God Who Gave It To Man.
Such beautiful 😍 Love is more than human, but so is marriage, because the extraordinary fact thereof is that God is ALIVE & PLEASANT. He is yet "The Only Source Of Human Life", so that no man or woman ever conceived a child without God breathing life into the foetus and actually naming the child.
Consequently, nothing in Marriage is more important than UNITY OF MIND & ♥ HEART with the Living Creative God on the part of man and woman. They must unite, really and truly unite and become ONE with this Living God in Prayer.
Such a glorious spirituality must colour all human thinking concerning marital life; and especially as regards any family planning. It is really a "Great Mystery", a Divine Spirituality, a good reason for
JOYFUL AND SATISFACTORY LIVING.
Evidently, all the world over 😍 LOVE is spoiled very often by the fact that sexual intercourse is surrounded by fears, false beliefs, shame, selfishness and ignorance. Yet God created the ACT of SEX. He did it for two closely related reasons. The long-term reason is the continuation of the human race; but the immediate object of intercourse is to provide mature man and woman with a unique means of expressing their 😍 Love for each other in marital life.
When sexual intercourse is rightly experienced not only as a PHYSICAL UNION, but simultaneously as a deep 😴 SPIRITUAL UNION of two persons, then, one is very close indeed to realizing in the depths of that UNION that the Greatest Thing that Life has to offer husband and wife is real 😍 Love. This 😍 Love is surely a mystery and one cannot really define it precisely.
Maybe, Apostle Paul will help man to understand it: "Love 😍 is always patient & kind; it is never jealous; never boastful nor conceited; it's never rude or selfish ... it delights in the Truth ... always ready to excuse, to trust, to endure what comes.... and to suffer for the other".
God created us to be happy people and through this essential tutorial it is hoped to enhance the expression of 😍 Love in marital life and to dispel some unfounded 😱 fears. If there is one thing more than any other that breaks marital life and diminishes 😍 Love, even between two people who once truly loved each other, I would choose as that one thing "The Abuse Of Physical Sex".
Once the sacred ♥ ACT of SEX is allowed to become predominant in 😍 Love, trouble is on the way. Soon the partners will be substituting Sex for real 😍 Love to try to close the gap that is developing between them. This is the way to eventual separation. Love 😍 feeds on personal relationship - an intercourse involving the whole person - not just on the physical Act itself. And this, if one thinks about it deeply enough, can just about explain everything.
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
Earlier, we 📝 noted that Marital Life is divinely associated and symbolizes The Future Marriage Of The Lamb, which is The Blessed Holy Marriage Between CHRIST De MESSIAH & The Glorified ⛪ Church Of God On 🌍 Earth - when The True Holy Christianity And Sanctified Revival Judaism will prevail for ever and there shall be all good reason to sing Divine Songs Of Praises Unto The Most High God @ ZION Of Holy Jerusalem:
Our Glorious Happy Home Of Divine Blessedness, Eternal Salvation cum Sanctification, Peace, Bliss & Glory, To God's Glory And By His Grace.
Alleluia!! Amen. Hosanna In The 🏡 Highest!
Indeed, ALLELUIA PRAISE shall ring throughout the 🏡 Holy Heavens whilst on 🌍 Earth the 👑 Kings, the Travelling Merchants, the Ship Captains and the Sailors are bewailing the sudden 💀 destruction of the mysterious "Great Harlot", namely:
"Babylon The Great" - The False World Religious Empire. In Heaven The Glorified Lord Jesus Christ De Messiah Yahshua, certainly, understands what The Joyful Outcry "ALLELUIA" means, being a Hebraic, Divine Heavenly Language; for Christ De Messiah Himself was once a Hebrew on 🌍 Earth & The Outcry is in Hebrew and means "Praise JAH" or "Praise JEHOVAH/YAHWEH.
On Babylon The Great there comes the Day of Destruction of Harlots. But for The Blessed Lamb's Bride (Holy Jerusalem), there comes The Glorious Wedding Day. This gives extra JOY to Heaven.
Apostle John says: "And I heard as it were the Voice of a Great Multitude, and as the Voice of many waters, and as the Voice of mighty thundering, saying: Alleluia: For The Lord God Omnipotent Reigneth. Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to Him: For The Marriage Of The Lamb is come, and His wife hath made herself ready".
Thus, Alleluia resounds throughout the Heavens from a mighty Chorus of Voices, a superhuman sound like that of many waters & heavy thunders of God's Divine Production.
Indeed, the Chorus is just as if it is on the joyful day of the enthronement of a new 👑 king! And that's what it really is:
The Lord Reigns @ ZION Of Holy Jerusalem:
Our Glorious Happy Home!
Amen. Alleluia!! Hosanna In The Highest!
REV. PROF. CYPRIAN CHRIS JERUSALEM OKOLIE,
PhD, DD.
(The LORD'S APOSTLE Of Zionist Kingdom VISION, MISSION & DIVINE MANDATE @ ZION With Kingdom University Education & Worldwide Kingdom Ministries @ Zion In Glory Above)
(The LORD'S APOSTLE Of Zionist Kingdom VISION, MISSION & DIVINE MANDATE @ ZION With Kingdom University Education & Worldwide Kingdom Ministries @ Zion In Glory Above)
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+MARITAL LOVE THAT WARMS THE HEART:
+MARITAL LOVE THAT WARMS THE HEART:
A DIVINE PROTOTYPE OF THE LAMB'S MARRIAGE WITH HIS HOLY BRIDE @ HEAVENLY MOUNT ZION+
Blessed Is He Who Comes In The Name Of The Lord! Alleluia!! Hosanna In The Highest! Behold, The Lord, Our God, Has Enlightened Us - His Favoured Kingdom Saints @ Heavenly Mount ZION. And, The Lord Almighty Is Our God Forever & Ever. He Shall Reign Over All Mankind To Everlasting Ages.
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
O Blessed Divine Moment! Come, Our Blessed Lord Christ De Messiah! Take To Thee Thy Great Power And Reign Over Us - Thy Favoured Kingdom Saints @Surpassing oly Jerusalem: Our Glorious Happy Home!
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
Glorify Ye The Blessed Lord Christ De Messiah, Who Is The Most Merciful Son Of God Who Is Mighty In His Dominion & Righteous In His Divinity, Who Wrought Eternal Salvation For All Mankind, Which God The Father Prepared Before The Face Of All People; A Light To Enlighten The Gentiles In All Nations And The Glory Of His Covenant Children, Israel Of God.
Alleluia!! Amen. Hosanna In The Highest!
O That All Favoured Kingdom Men @ Zion And Blessed Daughters Of ZION In His Glory Might Praise The Lord Almighty God, For His Surpassing Love, Divine Favour, Goodness & Mercy And For His Wonderful Works To The Children Of Men! For The Blessed Lord Christ De Messiah Was Divinely Appointed By The Eternal Father For The Salvation Unto His Favoured Gentiles & Glory Unto His Blessed Israel Of God!
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
Glory, Glory Be To Almighty God In The Highest! Peace, Peace To Favoured, Bouncing, Vibrating And Radiating, Cheerful Daughters Of ZION In Clean Manifestation Of Heroic Virtues Of Love, Chastity & Submission! Peace To Blessed, Sparkling, Elegant And Gallant Kingdom Men Of Integrity, Confidence And Goodwill! Peace To Us - Divine Athletes Of Righteousness And God's Sanctified Kingdom @ ZION Of Holy Jerusalem:
Our Glorious Happy Home!
Alleluia!! Amen. Hosanna In The Highest!
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Beloved Blessed Kingdom Brethren @ ZION & My Respected Sparkling Comrades Of The Sacred Academia In Lord Christ De Messiah: Holy Greetings To U All Today, In Beautiful, Immaculate White Charismatic Love In Blessed Lord Christ De Messiah!
Alleluia!! Amen. Hosanna In The Highest!
Happy Welcome To Our Today's Interesting, Sparkling, Fantastic, Informative, Glorious, Edifying And Theologically Nourishing And Philosophically Insightful Sacred Talk On Marital Life In Love That Warmed The Heart, Portraying A Blessed cum Prosperous Marital Life As A Foretaste Of The Blessed Lamb's Heavenly Marriage @ ZION Of Jerusalem Above.
Amen & Amen.
No doubt, we are set to enjoy a sacred, thrilling, exciting and edifying Marital Life Discourse in all sincerity, clarity, boldness and exposures, which essentially unfolds and radically buttresses the extent of orgasmic experience in man, which serves an ideal foretaste of the Cheerful ENJOYMENT, SATISFACTION, PLEASANTRIES, EXCITEMENTS, UTOPIAN cum BLISSFUL CONTENTMENT In Glory, To God's Glory And His Grace And Love.
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
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TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE
Actually, we don't usually turn to the Scriptural Book of Ecclesiastics for principles of Christian or Zionist Marriage. Nevertheless, this amazing Holy Scripture, which primarily describes "life under the sun" nicely illustrates some vital features of this fellowship in Chapter 4 to buttress the vital point of relationship in these words: "Two are better than one" (Eccl. 4: 9). Let us see these essential points of significance afforded in the Holy Scripture.
(A) A NEEDED SUPPORT:
"If they fall", says the Holy Scripture, "the one will life up his fellow" (Verses 10). I vividly recall a boyhood incident when several of us were enjoying children's sports in jumping over a swimming pool. As we got careless and started jumping over the pool, guess who fell in! My brother's quick action in pulling me out probably saved my life and taught me my first lesson in brotherhood. Practical Christian or Zionist Marriage involves more than just talking about it. It means SUPPORTING ONE ANOTHER during our "down times".
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(B) WARMTH
"How can one be warm" (Verse 11). How beautiful is the warmth of Zionist & Christian Marriage in the midst of a cold, unfeeling world. Whilst writing from a Roman prison cell, the aged Apostle Paul recalled the warmth of his friend, Onesiphorus, in the following words: "He has often refreshed, and has not been ashamed of my chain...... (he) sought me out very diligently, and found me" (2 Tim. 1: 16-17). Similarly, if, after doing some work I feel tired & hungry, who is there to help satisfy me with delicious diet if not my darling companion? Indeed, "Two are better than one"!
(C) DEFENCE
"If a man overpower the one, the two shall withstand him" (Verse 12). As Christians & Zionists we have a powerful enemy who would love to empower us - though impossible. The Scripture often reminds us about our resources against this enemy; & surely one of these resources is Marriage or Christian/Zionist Fellowship. The Scriptural Passage of Ecclesiastics 4 ends on a lovely note: "A threefold cord is not quickly broken". Perhaps, this would remind us that the best of human SUPPORT, WARMTH & FELLOWSHIP is meaningless without the third strand - that Fellowship with Divine Persons described in the Holy Epistle of Apostle John in 1 John 1: 3-4. Surely, such warm Fellowship affords fullness of JOY!
Alleluia!! Hosanna! Amen.
PRUDENT PLAN OF INTERMITTENT ABSTINENCE
Certainly, a happy and glorious Marriage is one where the balance is maintained between the physical and the spiritual. To maintain that balance it is necessary to abstain from sexual intercourse on many occasions, out of respect for one's partner. Nevertheless, another very important reason is that temporary abstinence is the key to the highest peak of experience in human life. Whilst satiety deadens, abstinence excites, inspires and enriches.
Certainly, a happy and glorious Marriage is one where the balance is maintained between the physical and the spiritual. To maintain that balance it is necessary to abstain from sexual intercourse on many occasions, out of respect for one's partner. Nevertheless, another very important reason is that temporary abstinence is the key to the highest peak of experience in human life. Whilst satiety deadens, abstinence excites, inspires and enriches.
The experience of many people has shown that it is possible to achieve contentment, without strain, during the times of abstinence, by developing a facility to express their love physically, without genital arousal. This takes time, love and strength of character, but the reward in terms of emotional well- being is well worth the effort. It is within the powers of most couples to master this necessary control. For an engaged couple, it is an invaluable preparation for a good marital life.
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THE MARITAL PHYSICAL GENITAL & NON-GENITAL UNION
A marital Physical Union involves a person's whole being. It is not merely "GENITAL". GENITAL UNION refers to contact between the male and female GENITAL ORGANS. The word "Non-genital" involves all other expressions of our sexuality. This point must be understood to see how men & women complement each other, as one half of an Orange complements the other. We need each other. God made it so. It is by the Physical GENITAL UNION that we complement each other, but this relationship does not always require a GENITAL EXPRESSION. It exists before people get married. Some of the finest men and women in history, in fact, never married. Widows and widowers can adapt themselves to a new, richer way of life without GENITAL UNION. And, unmarried people do not need intercourse to become complete personalities, as it is sometimes imagined. Indeed, they are often harmed by having premarital Sex: they defile themselves, too. GENITAL UNION too soon numbs a person's sensitivity to increased knowledge of another.
A marital Physical Union involves a person's whole being. It is not merely "GENITAL". GENITAL UNION refers to contact between the male and female GENITAL ORGANS. The word "Non-genital" involves all other expressions of our sexuality. This point must be understood to see how men & women complement each other, as one half of an Orange complements the other. We need each other. God made it so. It is by the Physical GENITAL UNION that we complement each other, but this relationship does not always require a GENITAL EXPRESSION. It exists before people get married. Some of the finest men and women in history, in fact, never married. Widows and widowers can adapt themselves to a new, richer way of life without GENITAL UNION. And, unmarried people do not need intercourse to become complete personalities, as it is sometimes imagined. Indeed, they are often harmed by having premarital Sex: they defile themselves, too. GENITAL UNION too soon numbs a person's sensitivity to increased knowledge of another.
Within Marriage, however, GENITAL UNION comes into its own. It is a type of sexuality proper to marital life. Yet, husband and wife also need to express the love between them in NON-GENITAL WAYS. And, if they are to be truly happy together the NON-GENITAL EXPRESSIONS must be a lot more frequent than GENITAL UNION The closest Sexual Union
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THE TRIANGLE OF MARRIAGE
To understand Marriage it can be useful to consider it as a TRIANGLE like the imperfect, rough and manual one depicted above in a sketch that an Android Phone could afford.
THE TRIANGLE OF MARRIAGE
In the Second Chapter of the Biblical Book of Genesis, God tells man and woman
In the Second Chapter of the Biblical Book of Genesis, God tells man and woman
"TO LEAVE, CLEAVE & BECOME ONE".
They must leave father and mother and cleave to each other. Setting up a new family is their own great responsibility. They cannot CLEAVE to each other if their parents come between them. People in some cultures are disconcerted by this command of God. Let them be assured that it is those parents who truly allow their children to LEAVE, who in the end never really lose them because they never lose their love. It is hard and lonely at first for the parents, but the rewards of noninterference are great. Their children belong to them now more than ever, but in a different way.
THE "ONE-NESS" IN MARITAL LIFE
"Become One"! That strange mysterious Divine Command! It starts in the Blessed Holy Trinity itself: "Keep them true to your name so that they may become One, even as we are One". To achieve this "One-ness", let us consider:
(A) UNION OF MINDS
(B) UNION OF HEARTS
(C). UNION OF BODIES
(A) UNION OF MINDS: "How can I love you if I do not know you"? And, how can I know you if you hide your heart & mind from me? A Couple cannot expect to come together in a fulfilling of the Genital Union @ night if, by their mutual relationship, they do communicate otherwise. Dialogue between them as persons is vital for their own happiness and that of their children as well as for the full enjoyment of intimacy later.
Of course, you should make time to chat to each other - it is necessary; and it is not a wasted time to learn a little about each other's job or hobby. Share books and other relevant reading materials, including magazines and Christian novels & booklets. Discuss them amiably. This, of course, increases intimacy between Martial Partners; it increases mutual love and deepens understanding of their combined fertility, whilst discussing it together gives rise to dialogue, a real communication. This increases their knowledge of each other and therefore their love.
Alleluia!! Amen.
Moreover, you should be open with each other. Do not hide your feelings too much. Let the wife know why the husband is annoyed. Tell him why you are upset. It is good to remember that in marital life there should be no private decisions. In fact, dialogue is vital and all-important in any would-be successful Marriage.
(B) UNION OF HEARTS Silence at times can be a very rich part of communication when it is filled with concern, kindness and thoughtful love. As with most things in life the great value of conversation is increased by remembering the happy medium. Constant chatter can be harmful to love, above all nagging. A gentle, silent embrace is a very powerful expression of love. We often forget the value of touch in our lives. O God help us!
Amen. Alleluia!!
And listen! Really listen with attention. Listen to the person, not just to the voice. Listen above all to what is implied but not spoken. It would be difficult to overestimate the importance of listening in a marital life. We all know the futility of trying to reveal ourselves to a woman - or a man @ times - who only pauses to breathe; or, to one is so full of himself and of his day that he never listens to any voice but his own.
This Union of Hearts cannot exist without LOVE-IN-ACTION. Love requires exercise to make it grow - to prevent it from dying. Love is trying to make the other person happy. A loving wife remembers the things that made her husband happy when they were newly wedded - their tidy cosy room, her neat appearance for his sake. He needs her love now more than ever. There is always a newness about love, the new green leaves on an old tree. Love for him makes her careful of their money, too & helps her to resist spending it wildly to impress the neighbours.
Certainly, a good husband remembers that his wife is now part of him. He is quick to notice when she is tired; and this sensitivity is appreciated by two categories of women particularly. The first is the working mother. It would be hard to overlook her needs. Not quite so obvious perhaps is the mother of a very young family. This constancy in her work and the dire NEED for watchfulness twenty-four hours of the day result in a fatigue, which sometimes reacts in the Sexual areas.
These mothers may simply be too tired to show their true affection for their husbands and their sexual demands can be dramatically reduced. How often husbands misinterpret this seeming lack of interest - and sometimes even the woman cannot understand what is happening to her, with the result that she becomes profoundly worried; and the whole situation is aggravated.
There is a time in marital life when a couple may have three or more very young children. If the wife has not an extended family situation, as it is often the case in most African nations, it can be for her a very exhausting time. She may have two babies still @ the nappy stage, & one other, or perhaps even two @ preschool age. When her husband comes home, she is very, very tired. This tiredness can be a very great barrier to sexual relations. But, on the other hand, if her husband shares some of her household tasks, holding the baby, ready even to change nappies, a lot of tension can be alleviated. Even a tired wife becomes very responsive when she senses and sees her husband's concern for her. At times, his gentle, quiet embrace can be a life-restorer to his wife; and this does not go unheeded by seeing
LOVE-IN-ACTION.
Isn't this part of what sharing life together all about? It is a good example of the meaning of Personal Love, as distinct from a merely "Genital Expression" of Love.
UNION OF BODIES:
The male and female ORGASMS have been described as a "MOUNTAIN". An Orgasm is the "Mountain-top". It is the climax in the act of Genital Union & it is very different for man and woman. But for both it can be equally deep and thrilling experience. God made it so. It is easy to describe an Orgasm in the male, for it occurs at the point where there is an ejaculation of his genital fluid or semen. It is preceded by the quiet release of lubricating mucus.
The female Orgasm is not so easy to describe, but let me try.
When the wife is coming close to the "MOUNTAIN-TOP", her respiration deepen first; and then her whole body goes a muscular spasm. It seems as though her husband is reaching her very heart and in truth that is what he is doing. Indeed, observing his wife, a great sense of joy and power fills him, together with love for her. He has succeeded in making her very happy. How different from the act of Sex where only selfish passion and lust for power reign and God Who is the Giver of Sex to man is far away!
Meanwhile, owing to limitation of space, O dear Blessed Reader and my Sparkling Comrade @ ZION:
I earnestly solicit for your indulgence to defer the more sensitive, exciting, interesting and informative sparkling revelation on this subject of Marital Love to our subsequent Talk on the course on ground.
Therein, by God's Grace, we shall delve into a total, sacred and highly exciting expositions on ORGASMIC EXPERIENCE in man and woman, considering how much and wonderful mankind attach extraordinary, remarkable and vital importance to Marital Love with respect to SEX and the exciting experience thereof.
Nevertheless, before I bring this essential marital discourse to its dramatic end, I want to remind us that the utopian excitements, wonderful pleasure, satisfaction and exciting enjoyment which Sexual Experience affords in man and woman is a clear foretaste or symbolism of the highly wonderful, unimaginable, ineffable and glorious satisfaction, enjoyment and contentment which The Blessed Lamb's Marriage, namely, Lord Christ De Messiah & His Holy Bride @ Heavenly Mount ZION, shall afford to the Blessed Kingdom Saints @ ZION of Holy Jerusalem:
Our Glorious Happy Home.
Whilst narrating her wonderful and satisfying experience she discovered in female Orgasm, Lady Agnes, a thirty-year-old Secondary School Teacher, has a rousing and exciting marital love story to offer, merely to remind us of the glorious utopian Satisfaction, Contentment & Bliss of the Kingdom Saints Fellowship with Lord Christ De Messiah in Heavenly Mount ZION.
Alleluia!! Amen.
Let us now hear Lady Agnes in what she has for us.
"During Orgasm I feel as if I am a person who has melted into thin air; and as though I was filled with a Divine Music, which I share with all living things; and it seems as if the spirit of all that lived, does live or will ever live, passes through me. Apparently, I find myself loosing a sense of balance; and thus he totally wins me over and eventually, I find myself prompted to surrender and fall completely to his sweet Love - a real lovely pleasant feeling, gently engulfing and relaxing, which entirely gets me exhausted. And, often, I loose all sense of time and space. Suddenly, sounds become quite meaningless. I cannot see in the sense that I no longer bother to focus my eyes. Initially, I feel a pulsating inside me stemming from just below the navel. My breasts tingle and I am told that my nipples stand erect. I am told that everything inside me stood upright and all right! I feel that I want to touch my marital partner with the whole of my body surface - inside and out.
If he manages to touch the hypersensitive spot I presume to be the cervix, then, it is painful but at the same time I shiver all over with ecstasy. If, for instance, I am bending over the arm of a chair, I am liable to lose all sense of balance. At that particular moment, I pass through an induced magical experience of a great, big, marvelous explosion wherein I become almost unconscious and shiver all over with estreme excitement and ecstasy. I try to eat him alive! And, I feel so rigid and my mind seems to float. Everything goes intensely purple with white lights; and my hair seems to be burning, whilst inside me, it appears, as though, I am turning into volcanoes that are about to erupt. I sometimes remember afterwards that I was banging my head against a wall or rolling my head from side to side. Sometimes, I feel I am going to die there and then because that was what human physical life is all about and there wasn't much else to experience beyond it! In fact, in this utopian state, I really find almost complete absence of feeling in that I am in a dreamlike state from which it might take me an unknown time to recover".
Wow! O Blessed Reader & Cherished Sparkling Comrade @ ZION: Just imagine! If Our Eternal Heavenly Father would so offer mankind such measure of physical utopian EXPERIENCE Of MARITAL LOVE ENJOYMENT & SATISFACTION, consider how extremely great, wonderful and glorious our LOVE ENJOYMENT, SATISFACTION, BLISS & GLORY our Heavenly Kingdom Eternal Life with our Blessed Lord Christ De Messiah will be like @ Heavenly Mount ZION of Holy Jerusalem:
Our Glorious Happy Home of Blessedness, Peace, Bliss & Glory, to His Glory and by His Grace.
Alleluia!! Amen. Hosanna In The Highest!
Ah, Why Not Be There In Holy Heaven @ ZION @ All Costs With Us - God's Kingdom Saints @ ZION of Holy Jerusalem:
Our Paradisal Home?
Remain Blessed Forever And Rapturable In Lord Christ De Messiah Who Comes Again, Soonest, To Take Us Home, To His Glory And By His Grace.
Amen & Amen. Alleluia!! Hosanna In The Highest!
O Beloved Blessed Kingdom Brethren cum Favoured Associates @ Heavenly Mount ZION & All My Favourite Sparkling Friends In Cheerful Pleasantries Of My Darling Comradeship In Beautiful, Immaculate White Charismatic Love:
REV. PROF. CYPRIAN CHRIS JERUSALEM OKOLIE, PhD DD.
🎊 *♥*SHALOM TO U ALL TODAY, IN 😍 LOVE*♥* 🎊
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